Change Your World Fast! The Power of Attitude!

220px-Mae_West_LATThe fastest, cheapest, most efficient way to change your world fast is to change your ATTITUDE! 

When people start to question what they are doing with their life, “is this all there is…,” there is a major shift that takes place.

A pivotal point when you decide you are not going to do this anymore. You don’t want this anymore.

It’s time to change your world fast!

Enter SELFISH stage right!

As explained in my book, here is a recap of the acronym for the word SELFISH:

S – Self-first; self-love; self-fulfillment

E – Energetic lifestyle; physically and socially active

L – Laughter; choosing a positive attitude; enjoying life and being totally engaged in every moment;

F – Feeding your body with clean, lean, unprocessed foods;

I – Intelligence; feeding your mind and soul through traveling, exploring, learning and loving;

S – Success; being the successful, powerful woman you were meant to be;

H – Happy; being happy with the New You and the new life you have created.

Now, with that in mind, I say again – the fastest, cheapest, most efficient way to change your world fast is to change your ATTITUDE!

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What Is Your Passion?

No, I don’t mean your “50 Shades of Gray” passion. I mean your life passion.

What is it now? Do you even know? Have you given any thought to how your passions and purpose have changed over the years. Because it changes with each phase of life.

When you have experienced something like divorce, your passions and purpose naturally change. As your life evolves, so do the things that are important to your happiness.

Now is the time to reevaluate what your current passions and purpose are, and a good way to do that is to take The Passion Test, created by Janet Bray Attwood and Chris Attwood.

I use this test in my workshops to help people identify what they love most and what is most important to their happiness.

The interesting thing is that when we realize how our passions have changed, we’re surprised. We aren’t aware that what we think is important changes as we experience life. This is a good exercise to do every six months to a year. You will be amazed.

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Women Happily Divorced – Feeling Young Again

I was with a group of girlfriends the other night. These are all women happily divorced. A rowdy bunch for sure!

One of the ladies was telling us that she would have never found her soul mate if she hadn’t had the courage to leave a miserable marriage. She said that she never knew this level of love existed. And she was talking emotionally and physically!

The more we talked about it, the more I heard a common thread. All of these ladies perceive themselves as much happier after their divorce than before. More empowered, more worthy, more balanced – happier.

Another one of the ladies commented that women our age, who had the courage to break away from their miserable marriages, can feel young and full of promise again. They can get that old “sass” back. They just have to give themselves permission to do so. These women were perfect examples.

Remember… that young girl… who used to get giddy when she saw a boy she liked? The girl who used to feel like she could do anything? That girl can be you, and you are the only one that can give yourself permission to feel that way again.

Women feeling that exuberance for life and love again. Feeling brave, confident, flirtatious. And I don’t just mean flirtatious with men, I mean flirtatious with life!

These are women happily divorced. Women who want to enjoy life to the fullest. Women who take control of their happiness.

With confidence comes sass, and with sass come flirtation. With flirtation comes fun. And isn’t that one of our goals in life – to have more fun? To enjoy life to the fullest? To be in each and every moment?

Even physical intimacy takes on a new meaning. It isn’t for procreating anymore. It’s for fun. Yes, it’s also for showing someone how you feel about them, but it’s fun. That feeling of playfulness is prominent in these women’s lives again. They are enjoying themselves.

This is one of the benefits of being the leading lady in your own life. Giving yourself permission to have fun again. And what you do with it is up to you.  Because it’s your turn.

New life! Fresh start! Endless possibilities!

You have been given a second chance at happiness! You can feel young and sassy again! Give yourself permission to live the life of your dreams! Be one of the women happily divorced!

Your happiness is a choice – your choice. The time is now! The power is yours! Use it!

Until next time,

Happy Living!

Christia Sale

The Most SELFISH Woman in America!

Women’s Life After Divorce Expert

P.S. If you feel like you need a little help getting started, click here. I’m here to help! My goal is for you to be happy again! Together we can make it happen. It’s your choice!



Free Teleseminar to Make This Valentine’s Day the Most SELFISH Ever!

Attention all divorced women! This year why not Make Valentine’s Day the Most SELFISH Ever!

Yeah, I know, it’s that time of year again. The time when it becomes blatantly obvious that we are not in a relationship.

For some reason, we think that it is a reflection of our attractiveness. That we don’t “got it” anymore. Well it’s NOT Sisters!

Listen! Just because you are “between men” does NOT mean you aren’t attractive! It means you are taking a breather! A sanity break! A SELFISH break!

Now… I love men just as much as the next gal, but when you’ve survived the trenches of divorce warfare, you need a break. You need to focus on yourself for a change.

It’s time to thank your lucky stars that you’ve been given another chance at happiness! You escaped the noose! Hallelujah!

I think that’s cause for celebration! And this Valentine’s Day, I am gathering all you divorced women out there together for a free party/teleseminar to do just that!

At 10am Pacific, noon Central, 1p Eastern we are going to all meet up on the telephone, and I’m going to share with you the 7 Steps For The Most SELFISH Valentines Day Ever!

First and foremost we are going to change the way we think about ourselves. We are going to have an Attitude Adjustment! We are going to get right back up on that pedestal where we belong! Then we are going to change the way we see our lives and approach our goals – romantic and otherwise.

We are basically going to take our power back where it belongs! Long Live the Power of the Woman!

All you have to do to join us is sign up here:

And I would suggest that you just go ahead and plan a party with your single girlfriends for that night. And expect there to be spontaneous cheering goin’ on! I’m talking bonfires and donkeys!  I’ll give you the details on the call. Sign up now and I will send you the teleseminar particulars closer to the date.

But rest assure that it will be one of your favorite Valentine’s Days EVER!

So sign up and get ready!

Until then,

Happy Living!

Christia Sale

The Most SELFISH Woman in America!

Women’s Life-After-Divorce Expert


New Start, Clean Slate – What are You Going to do With Yours?

What ARE you going to do with yours? I know you are thinking about it now… with the best intentions….

I want to offer a few suggestions to think about in your mission to fix all of your wrongs by making a list of intentional rights.

New Year’s Resolutions:

#1 – Resolve yourself to having more fun!

#2 – Live a healthy, active lifestyle!

#3 – See something spectacular this year!

#4 – Feel something spectacular this year!

#5 – Live with passion and purpose!

#6 – Choose to be happy!

#7 – Choose to make this world a better place than it was when you got here!

There you have it. My suggestions for New Year’s resolutions, or should I say intentions. We start with the best intentions, and then as life unfolds, we forget them. But if we will embrace the lifestyle that incorporates these goals, we can’t help but be happier.

In reflecting back on what I did and learned last year, I am totally sold on living an adventure. You have to put yourself out there, though. You have to stretch beyond your comfort zone, and open yourself up to new experiences. And you’ve got to be cool with the unknown, which was challenging at times, to say the least.

But I see the world differently now. I see myself differently now. And I like it!

I have never been so open to what the Universe will offer me than I am now. I feel like I am blooming, unfolding before my very eyes. Who knew?

I guess I had suppressed my true self for so long, I forgot I was in there, burning, waiting to be set free. I think I was living in fear. Fear of losing what I thought I had, but really didn’t.

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