Change Your World Fast! The Power of Attitude!

220px-Mae_West_LATThe fastest, cheapest, most efficient way to change your world fast is to change your ATTITUDE! 

When people start to question what they are doing with their life, “is this all there is…,” there is a major shift that takes place.

A pivotal point when you decide you are not going to do this anymore. You don’t want this anymore.

It’s time to change your world fast!

Enter SELFISH stage right!

As explained in my book, here is a recap of the acronym for the word SELFISH:

S – Self-first; self-love; self-fulfillment

E – Energetic lifestyle; physically and socially active

L – Laughter; choosing a positive attitude; enjoying life and being totally engaged in every moment;

F – Feeding your body with clean, lean, unprocessed foods;

I – Intelligence; feeding your mind and soul through traveling, exploring, learning and loving;

S – Success; being the successful, powerful woman you were meant to be;

H – Happy; being happy with the New You and the new life you have created.

Now, with that in mind, I say again – the fastest, cheapest, most efficient way to change your world fast is to change your ATTITUDE!

No one can make you feel anything you don’t let yourself feel. Only you can [Read more...]

Reinvention–The Road You Have to Travel

On this road to reinvention, sometimes you find yourself just paddling along, not quite as energized as you first were with the idea of change.

It’s not because you’ve changed your mind, by any means! It’s just like you are taking a breather. Taking time to absorb the dynamics of the change that you have already experienced. You are in uncharted waters and are being confronted with new skill sets required to achieve your goals.

I find myself confronted with things I have no past experience with, yet the knowledge is required for accomplishing my goals. So I’m having to take time to learn them, which is making me feel like my efforts are being diluted.

I feel like I’m loosing momentum from having to divert my focus, but when I look at the overall picture, I realize that I’m still “focusing on my goals”, I’m just having to include a new learning component into my overall plan for success.

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For the Thrill of It

I know I’ve talked about this before, and definitely in my book, The Most Selfish Woman in America, How to Make Your Divorce the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You!

You need to do something that takes your breath away!

I’m talking about one of those experiences where you find yourself squealing like a little girl . . . OK, work with me here!

This week I took “flight” on a Skycoaster. It is a cross between skydiving and hang-gliding on the end of a cable. You are harnessed onto the end of a very long cable and pulled up 183 feet to the top of a very tall pole. Then after you make peace with what you must do, you pull a “rip cord” and start diving/falling straight towards the ground until the cable swings you out and up to it’s pinnacle. Then you fall back from wince you came, just to do it all again. You swing like a pendulum, back and forth, until your momentum is completely spent, and you are left dangling and in awe.

The whole experience is thrilling and [Read more...]