Women Happily Divorced – Feeling Young Again

I was with a group of girlfriends the other night. These are all women happily divorced. A rowdy bunch for sure!

One of the ladies was telling us that she would have never found her soul mate if she hadn’t had the courage to leave a miserable marriage. She said that she never knew this level of love existed. And she was talking emotionally and physically!

The more we talked about it, the more I heard a common thread. All of these ladies perceive themselves as much happier after their divorce than before. More empowered, more worthy, more balanced – happier.

Another one of the ladies commented that women our age, who had the courage to break away from their miserable marriages, can feel young and full of promise again. They can get that old “sass” back. They just have to give themselves permission to do so. These women were perfect examples.

Remember… that young girl… who used to get giddy when she saw a boy she liked? The girl who used to feel like she could do anything? That girl can be you, and you are the only one that can give yourself permission to feel that way again.

Women feeling that exuberance for life and love again. Feeling brave, confident, flirtatious. And I don’t just mean flirtatious with men, I mean flirtatious with life!

These are women happily divorced. Women who want to enjoy life to the fullest. Women who take control of their happiness.

With confidence comes sass, and with sass come flirtation. With flirtation comes fun. And isn’t that one of our goals in life – to have more fun? To enjoy life to the fullest? To be in each and every moment?

Even physical intimacy takes on a new meaning. It isn’t for procreating anymore. It’s for fun. Yes, it’s also for showing someone how you feel about them, but it’s fun. That feeling of playfulness is prominent in these women’s lives again. They are enjoying themselves.

This is one of the benefits of being the leading lady in your own life. Giving yourself permission to have fun again. And what you do with it is up to you.  Because it’s your turn.

New life! Fresh start! Endless possibilities!

You have been given a second chance at happiness! You can feel young and sassy again! Give yourself permission to live the life of your dreams! Be one of the women happily divorced!

Your happiness is a choice – your choice. The time is now! The power is yours! Use it!

Until next time,

Happy Living!

Christia Sale

The Most SELFISH Woman in America!

Women’s Life After Divorce Expert

P.S. If you feel like you need a little help getting started, click here. I’m here to help! My goal is for you to be happy again! Together we can make it happen. It’s your choice!



Show Notes for Sass & Style

This is the perfect time in your life for tips on Sass & Style with Thea Wood, Signature Stylist.

Your Sass is your attitude, your attitude comes from your confidence, and your confidence speaks to the world through your personal style without one word being said!

People immediately think you are what they see. The image you project is your way of telling the world who you are and how you feel about yourself. If you believe it, they believe it!

Research shows that a stranger makes a judgement of you within the first three seconds of seeing you, without one word being spoken. Thea and I want to make sure you are sending the message you want to be judged by through your style. Your initial impression speaks volumes, so we are going to make sure you mean what you are saying through your Sass & Style.

Also, we all need to look in the mirror every so often and reevaluate our style, but especially when you are reinventing yourself after a divorce, or other traumatic event in your life. You need to change your style to match your new life. You aren’t the same person you were before. You have different goals, different values, a different body and a different message to send to the world, so you want to be sure the message you are sending is the same message that the world is receiving.

Finding your sass is just as important as finding your style. When you start rebuilding your confidence, you start empowering your attitude, which is your sass. Your attitude is based on your confidence, and your confidence exudes through your personal style. They go hand-in-hand.

Your personal style should be considered your branding – branding yourself to the world. And you want to be consistent in your branding. It is one of our most powerful and controllable assets.

An important consideration is to be true to yourself and who you really are. Be consistent in your actions and your message. People can see right through inconsistencies.

Thea is a Signature Stylist, which is someone who can help you identify your personal style based on your lifestyle, your body and your personality. To learn about her services, you can find her at www.theawood.com. That is where you can also access her style videos and follow her blog.

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