This week I am going to shake things up a bit.
Change is good, as we all know. It gives us an opportunity to grow. So from now on I am going to be releasing a weekly vlog instead of a regular post.
And here is my first one.
The first one is always scary. You know, like the first crepe or the first interview… You get better with practice.
I have the transcript below if you like to read, but please go over to the youtube site and watch. You will see my transition unfold over the weeks. Stay tuned!
“If you are an emotionally spent, physically exhausted, divorced woman, come sit by me!
By the time I’m done with you, YOU are going to be Happy!
My name is Christia Sale, the one who wrote the Most SELFISH Woman in America – How to Make Your Divorce the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You and I am honored to be your Women’s Life After Divorce Expert.
I’m here to tell you that you are not alone, and you don’t have to be miserable anymore!
DIVORCE SUCKS! But sometimes it is necessary. For whatever the reason is, the fact is that it has happened, and we have to deal with it.
We all have our own story how we got here, but that story does not define us. Whether it be from abuse, infidelity, mental illness, just being a jerk, whatever, when this kind of thing happens, it is how we choose to respond to it that shows our true character, and dictates how things are going to turn out.
I want you to take a step back, out of your emotionally scarred self, and get into your objective self.
Now, for whatever the reason, the reality is that for your relationship to have ended in divorce, things had gone awry somewhere, and chances are that things would have never gone back to when times were good. That rarely happens! And if it had happened to you, we would not be having this conversation!
Life is to be enjoyed, not suffered through. You were not put on this earth to be miserable, you were put here to thrive and to make this world better than it was when you got here.
As painful as divorce can be, the prospect of a future full of possibilities and happiness helps take the sting out.
Be thankful you have been given a gift – the gift of a second chance at happiness! Don’t waste it!
You need to start thanking your lucky stars Sisters!
Now, to use this second chance to the fullest, you must start focusing on what you want for your future, not what you don’t want. Focus on where you want your life to go, not where you came from. Like T. Harv Eker says in the Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, “what you focus on expands.” so be very selective on what you focus on.
So, still in your objective self, you can see how this phase will pass, and depending on how you respond to it, this next phase of your life can be the best phase yet!
It all depends on how you choose to respond to your divorce.
You can choose to wallow in self-pity, not changing anything that has happened and prolonging your misery, or you can choose to come out of this feeling like Super Woman!
I’m honored to be on this journey with you! I got your back!
So, If this video was beneficial, hopeful, or inspiring, or if you just want to contribute to the conversation, leave me a comment below, make sure you subscribe and share it with your friends. If you want access to more info plus extras that I can’t put on videos, go to themostselfishwomaninamerica.com & sign up for the updates.
This is Christia Sale, The SELFISH Woman, saying You Deserve to be Happy and I will show you how!
And until next time,